What is it that they find so seductive and sexy?
Let’s face it! Men are very visual in their approach and appreciation of the female form. The answer, however, is much deeper than the hardwiring of male visual cues.
Some men…perhaps most men if they are being honest without fear of a girlfriend or wife…love to watch a woman strip because it turns them on.
If that answer seems too simplistic, then step inside my ride because we are about to peel away the depth of male sexuality to discover exactly what men find so seductive and sexy about watching a woman strip.
From the beginning of time, women knew that removing clothing was the way to a man’s libido because it was the visual promise of sexual favors and fantasies. By stimulating a man to visualize the slow removal of choice bits of clothing while swaying suggestively to a rhythmic bump and grind, women entice men to step beyond their want to touch straight into the pleasure of participation.
Similar to a football game, most of the fun for men is vicarious participation. Not to say that they don’t love the act of sex, because we all know they do, but having an uninhibited, sexually charged woman show them direct attention and focus on matching his sexual side with her own is a powerful potion of adrenaline spiked visuals of sex mingled with a healthy dose of ego masturbation.
In short, it makes a man feel like a stud if a woman is so taken with him that she slips past the sexual taboos of every social norm, willing to remove her clothes for him, as he sits back to be treated like a King to watch the show.
Again, overly simplistic perhaps…but, there is one reality of the concept is not readily grasped by most women: confidence. Since the first seductive dance of Salomé, women confident enough about their bodies and their sexuality to remove their clothes have made men shuffle in their seats from a tightening in their pants.
Watching a woman strip feeds directly into the male sense of where sexuality and sensuality meet! Yes indeed…the biggest of all sexual organs: the brain. With a swaying of hips as bits of cloth drop suggestively over rounded breasts to hang for a moment on the end of a hard nipple, lips pouted in promises of oral pleasures with eyes speaking invitations just for him, the male brain is primed and ready to go well before the rest of him feels the pending explosion!
So go forth and learn how to Lap Dance and for your man.